You said what?
Why do you want to do that?
Do you have to be so loud?
Why are you raising your voice?
Does it really matter?
Why didnt you tell me?
Do you have to do it now?
Take a deep breath and smile.
Smile?
Are you kidding I want to shout and scream.
Yes, you can but as soon as you raise your voice you lose.
Take that deep breath, smile and agree that whatever it was is a good idea.
Then and only then state your own point of view.
Try it next time you are sorely tested.
Smiling works so much better.
3 comments:
U have a nice blog here...lots of wisdom.
Wise but not trying to "preach".
RR
just letting it take me where it will,and its a nice discipline to try and express a thought a day in a coherent form.
Just letting it take me where it will,and it's a nice discipline to try and express a thought a day in a coherent manner.
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