Do you have one?
Mothers who decide to live their lives through their children
Trying to realize their own ambitions through their children
Using their children as personal slaves
Demanding attention
Demanding service
Often mothers say they dedicated their lives to helping their children
That they sacrificed their lives for their children
Up until the time their children leave home this might be true
After this time it is not true
Parasitical mothers will not let their adult children go
Intruding and controlling every aspect of their adult children's lives
Phoning every day checking what they are doing
Demanding service and attention from their adult children
Some adopt the poor me sick person approach demanding constant attention from the adult child
Interfering in everything they try to do
Never letting them free
Sadly many adult children do not even see what is going on
Don't you say bad things about my mother
She sacrificed her life to give me what I have
Many actually believe this self serving PR from their mothers
If you choose to give time to your mother fine
If you do not and resent her interference in your life then change it
Be firm and clear and if necessary cut communications with her
Do not ruin your life because of her selfishness
Parasitical mothers will not let go so it is up to you to break this unhealthy relationship
Only you can do this
Wake to your own life
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