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Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Incapable
Incapable of love that is
Today we live in an era of what we could call one of transitional views about sex
Those who embrace it enthusiastically claim that sex for sex's sake is fine and there need be no other aspect to the union just the sex
Getting angry if anyone says they disapprove
Others remain uneasily aware of old taboos
A transitional state in many societies
Those who see sex solely as exercise or solace are horny, needy, and afraid or incapable of love
How so?
Because they think it is OK to place the great gift of physical intimacy in the same space as shaking hands
They think it is OK to consider other humans as sex toys
To be used
To be thrown away afterwards
This recreational attitude to sex has become normal with drunken clubbers and others
There have always been those who felt sex to be a sport or hobby
The normalisation of casual sex without care or courtship is fairly recent
In one way it is good that sex is no longer a secret dirty business
It is fine that we no longer (Muslims accepted) persecute divorcees, single mothers or gays
There need be no comments about the Roman Catholic church who still insist that sex is only for procreation purposes, which is probably a step too far in the other direction
What is not so cool is the idea that you see someone you fancy, decide to have sex with them, do so and say goodbye
Removing the courtship and confining the experience to sex alone is selfish
Is it because they are frightened of relationship?
Is it a conquest in their eyes?
Or is it really running away and or abuse?
Having no interest other than the sex act itself is it because they are lonely?
Or maybe they cannot stand themselves?
For sure it blunts their humanity
It reduces their interest in another human to a small temporary sexual transaction
Once this becomes the norm then addiction follows
Like all addictions it is hard to stop once started
Some grow out of it and take the risk of real relationship
Others no they carry on getting less and less out of each experience as time goes on
Does this tell us something?
Over time they become incapable
Incapable because they have become totally cynical about the other sex
About what they are there for
Just incapable of love
For love is unconditional
Not a temporary transaction to relieve oneself
Incapable humans is what they are and what they become
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